Hi again and thanks for replies.
Howard, the Club have been very clear in asking us to be respectful about where and how we park, not only on the website but also, the coach from our team has asked us the same and given us ideas where to park as per your list. The Club, in my opinion, try very hard to be good neighbours and it's a very friendly group who, I don't think, wish to offend and neither do I!
It appears however, that I have, inadvertantly, managed to hack somebody off to the point where they left the note! It's irked me enough to register for this forum as the only means I can think of to have my say and state my case (and apologise) back at them!