And while I'm at it, I do other forms of excersise, Im happy with my social life, and I value moments of peace and solitude in this crazy, noisy, overcrowded, overconnected world.
It's an interesting mechanic I've noticed. When you ask "how do I enjoy this one thing more?" Or "how can I improve x?" You will always get people saying, forget X, do Y.
It was the same when I asked advice on making purchases, planning a career, making important life choices or just choosing what to have for lunch. There must be a name for it somewhere. Anyone trained in sociology/psychology?