I’d rather be the “pebble in the shoe” or “the sand in the eye” of the EU from the inside than have things done to us that we have little or no ability to control.
I quite like this point. Although the UK is seen as the awkward man of the EU by some, it also keeps others on their toes. We negotiated a whole load of opt-outs over the years.
With 28 nations, it's very difficult to get agreement (in Westminster, the government mostly just needs to ensure it's back-bench rebels are brought to heel). Certainly, as far as Turkey is concerned, there are too many who would veto their accession - Germany (big Turkish migrants already from when they'd accept anyone who could say "Asyl" ("asylum")) along with Greece and Cyprus.
I suspect I am going to depress everyone who's had of this referendum by saying I suspect it'll be a close result and this won't be the end of it. Even if we vote to stay friends with our EU neighbours, there will be another referendum with the next treaty change.
And if we pull out of the EU but stay in the EFTA, will it make much difference?
Lisbon TreatyFrom the BBC Reality Check
Article 42 of the Lisbon Treaty states that what it calls "a common defence" would require unanimity in the European Council. In other words, Britain could veto it. It goes on to say that any such decision would be taken in accordance with the constitutional requirements of member states. That would mean ratification in national parliaments and it could trigger the UK's European Union Act 2011, which would mean a referendum before any powers could be transferred.
Ironically Lisbon also provided the mechanism for leaving the EU!
I for one think the majority of EU decisions are for the good of all. But actually (apart from finance) there have not been many major decisions made that affect the average Brit in a big way.